FURTHER FIBRO RESOURCES FOR YOU!!

1.  THE CARER'S PERSPECTIVE:
2. THE VIEW OF THE FIBROMYALGIA PERSON
3. DVD ORDER FORM - RON AND MARGARET WITH DOCTOR CHOY
4.LINK TO INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE ON FIBRO -GP PRESENTATIONS


RON ROBSON’S TALK ON FIBROMYALGIA :

 

 


Introduction
: When I met Margaret she had some health issues associated with Arthritis which really placed few restrictions on her. We were married in November 1997 and in December/January 1998 we danced until 2 am on New Years Eve. Within a year of that the Fibro was getting to her. She was diagnosed privately in 1998. Within a year she was using a stick all the time. We bought a wheelchair as a positive move as the wheelchair helped us to go to places we could never have gone otherwise. Margaret has an electric disability scooter at present and this has proved to be invaluable in giving her freedom to go and do what she pleases, although she does walk as much as she can.

 

When Margaret was still working and trying to cope with Fibromyalgia and I was still working there were several difficulties. The first of these was the fact that she could no longer lift saucepans etc and was unable to cook meals. As I had always been happy to cook this was not a problem for me. We decided to have ready meals in the microwave when I was late home and I made casseroles for the times I was away. These were either frozen and/or in the fridge. They had to be in small casserole dishes so she could lift them. They could be heated in the Microwave or in the oven. I was wary of Margaret using the oven as there was more chance she could drop the item and burn herself. Margaret was unable to open the tops of various jars and tins so we purchased an implement to help her. She had difficulty pulling out electrical wall plugs so we purchased some plug mates.

 

Margaret has always been an independent woman. She was on her own as a single mum for 19 years before we met. This determined attitude can be good in some ways, but in others it can work against the partner. For example when I can see she is struggling to do something I can offer assistance. However that offer has to be  couched in a sensitive way as there has to be a balance between helping and taking away her independence. As her husband and friend it is not always easy for me to see that line, whilst for her the line is obvious. Care has to be taken in these situation, which occur frequently, to ensure that a rebuttal does not end up making me feel aggrieved, upset or rejected. This may appear silly but it is vitally important that we maintain a two way supportive relationship as resentment could become a major obstacle in  our relationship.

 

The other things that can be difficult are the times that Margaret has severe pain. She has pain all of the time but at times the pain either becomes more severe, or shooting pains race around her body. As she, like many other Fibros is allergic to all pain killers this places a further difficulty in our path. There is nothing that can be done whilst the pain is so bad except to hold her, cuddle her and, if it helps, massage her where the pain is. The problem for the partner is that this is an intensely frustrating experience. You want to help but are unable to. It makes you feel so frustrated and helpless that it can bubble inside and make you feel like exploding.

 

Imagine that someone you love is writhing on the bed and screaming and you cannot do anything about it. It is extremely difficult to cope with, especially for a person who is used to dealing with difficult things in their work over the years and yet they can see you screaming but can’t do anything about it.

 

I remember one night when the pain was so intense that she wanted me to cut off her arm. Imagine, here it is, at 2am and the screaming is vibrating through the room. A sort of frustration coupled with helplessness swept right through me and then almost anger because of my own inability to be able to impact in any way on the pain.

 

The partner has to learn to cope with this, otherwise the relationship may not survive. The person in pain can only deal with the pain. They cannot be expected to deal with the partner’s frustration as well. The way forward with this, in the first instance, is for the    person   who   is   in   pain   to   try   and

understand, not only their emotions and how they affect others but also what the other person’s perception of the situation is. In other words how do they see it.

 

There are other practical issues that revolve around Fibro. These are things like Fibro fog, (when all the words are muddled or the person forgets what they were talking about halfway through a sentence), when Margaret has the words ready to come out but they don’t, instead some other word or part of the sentence emerges. My inclination, especially when she can’t find the right word, is to either finish the sentence or say out loud the word she is looking for. This causes her intense irritation as she often would use a word different from the one that I chose.

 

There are also the domestic chores. Margaret is unable to lift and use the vacuum cleaner, she cannot reach up for the high dusting and other jobs like that. For the partner, if no other help is available, these are extra jobs that they have to include in their week. When I was working I had a set routine that involved doing loads of jobs on weekends but then that restricted our opportunities to go out and lead a ‘normal’ life.

 

So it is a delicate balance. Luckily Margaret was not, and is not, overly house proud, although she does like to know that the floors are clean and the dust is kept at bay (she does really like everything tidy and in its place, but she has accepted that it doesn’t quite happen like that with me around). Margaret found it difficult to iron my shirts as they were so big. She could manage the other items if the ironing board was left up. In the evenings, and when required I would iron the shirts etc. as this helped Margaret not to worry. You see, as a Fibro, she feels she should be doing so much even if it makes her ill. As a partner it seems to me that you have to do everything possible to prevent her getting ill or any worse. Once again this must be negotiated in a way that does not create resentment or conflict. At present the bulk of the ironing is completed by me.

 

It seems to me that the prime thing for all Fibro couples to do is to try and maintain, as far as is reasonably possible, a normal relationship in every respect. To do this there has to be an acceptance by both partners that things will not be the same in every respect as they were. This does not mean giving up everything. It is vitally important that you look at ways in which you can maintain the lifestyle that was in place before Fibro entered your life, albeit in a different form.

 

As many of you are aware, there are often bursts of sudden exhaustion, this may occur when you have booked to go to dinner or on holiday or meeting with friends. For the partner this can be extremely difficult unless they take the view that if it is frustrating and upsetting for them how much worse must it be for the person with the Fibro? Although it is difficult, at times it is essential, that everyone has something to look forward to in their lives. For a person who has difficulty going out in the evenings, as most Fibros do, this special occasion may mean so much more because it happens infrequently.

 

There are ways around these things, for example we still go to the theatre and the cinema but we go during the day to matinees. We also go out for a lunch rather than an evening meal. We have a lot of fun planning our times out together. I have a new job since retirement. I was appointed ‘Project Manager’ (Holidays) by Margaret.

 

Another example is that some Fibros fall or get dizzy frequently. One of the easy ways to deal with this is to purchase a collapsible stick. Your partner may not understand in the beginning but if you can persuade them that this is the way to remain mobile and still go out then they will be more accepting. If they, or other family members, are in denial (either don’t believe in Fibro or don’t understand it) then it is up to the person with the illness to begin their Fibro Education. One of Margaret’s biggest sources of frustration is that even after all this time some of her family still  are  sceptical about Fibro. When she says

 

 

she has pain they say ‘well we all do but we get on with it’. In my experience these sort of frustrations can build up in the individual with Fibro and can then spill into the relationship and cause needless tension. The partner has to be understanding about the sort of pressure that this can cause and look for ways to either defuse it or, at the very least, understand it.

 

There are times when Margaret has difficulty getting out of the car. Whilst I always hold the door for her, I have found, from experience, that putting my hand under her arm to help lift her out will cause her even more pain. So I grit my teeth and stand back letting her struggle herself. Otherwise my good intentions will only cause more pain.

 

There are times when we are at an automatic Bank Teller and Margaret is going to withdraw money. She often has ‘fumbly fingers’ that is, her fingers seem swollen when they are not, and she can’t grasp things as easily as normal. There are usually queues at the machine and I feel the pressure to do it for her. However she must be allowed to do it for herself otherwise she loses her right to be an independent person. It is so frustrating when I feel I can do it for her in a third of the time. I know she feels bad because she is slow and the queue is long, so anything I say will only increase her frustration and increase the length of time that it takes to finish.

 

When we are in bed together there is the problem of my leg or arm touching part of her body, which causes her severe pain. I know other Fibro couples who have the same problem. The dilemma for the partner is what to do. If I choose to sleep in another bed then I feel bad because I want to be with Margaret, she also feels that she is losing out on the closeness that she treasures. We have decided that the best thing is to put up with Margaret’s pain and occasional discomfort when my body collides with hers as we both value the closeness and strength that we get from being near to each other.

 

Margaret is allergic to a number of things and is especially sensitive to noise. As noise is a real challenge when you are trying to sleep and your husband snores (ever so slightly) Margaret decided to use earplugs. It took some time to find the most comfortable and non-irritating ones but she finds that they are most helpful and I do not worry about the occasional snore, as she cannot hear them.

 

The other issue with noise is that the sensitivity includes noise coming from the neighbours. Margaret hears things that I do not hear, and can find things annoying that others don’t. One of the ways that this can be helped is to have quiet soothing music on in the background. But then Margaret is not used to having music on, so she decides to put up with the noise as she realises that the noise would not bother others, however this can sometimes wind her up over a period of time. I always know when I get home and she says ‘can you hear that noise?’ The truth is that very often I am unable to hear the offending noise. However that does not mean Margaret can’t hear it.

 

The other side of that is when I’m watching the TV or a Video with my headphones on and Margaret says something to me. I forget that the headphones cause me to speak louder and to her its almost as if I am shouting at her. It took me some time to realise that this caused her discomfort. Luckily I don’t watch TV very often and I have also taken the step of taking the headsets off when I talk to her. Of course, sometimes I forget.

 

There are various other sensitivities, for example light, perfume and smoke. We approach Boots fragrance counter as if it was the enemy and slide around anything that is remotely smelly. Horror of horrors is the Body Shop. This can cause great discomfort but mostly we avoid the perfume counter. This makes buying exotic soaps etc for presents a ‘no no’.  People must think we have a lot to hide as we furtively avoid the high smelling places with dark glasses firmly in place and then, Oh No!! it’s a smoker. Hand over the face whilst sliding past different stalls at the market. We haven’t been arrested or questioned yet but of course there is still hope!!

Margaret also has this thing about things being in their right place. An example of this is the telephone Woe betide if I put it back slightly askew, or fail to rest it correctly on the stand.

 

Similar to this is a need to do things. Margaret focuses on doing something and no matter what I say or suggest she will not be deterred from it. No matter what the personal cost may be in more pain or discomfort there is little I can do to discourage her. This is very frustrating because when she has the extra pain or whatever else comes as a result of the extreme focus, I am the one who is going to be there helping her through it. It is even more frustrating when the offer to help is declined. When you love somebody as much as I love Margaret it is difficult to stand by and watch her doing this to herself.  However the fact is that I have to, because if I insisted she did not, then her life would not be as complete as it is today. So I bite my tongue and say nothing.

 

Acceptance by friends and family can be a big asset in coping with Fibro. If they are with you then the partner is not on their own and neither is the Fibro. As a partner, I help Margaret with all that she does in the hope that her quality of life will be enhanced whilst not diminishing in any way our love and strength as a team. This includes persuading the remainder of her larger family that she really does have Fibromyalgia, and it does impact on every area of her life.

 

We try to go on as many breaks and holidays as we possibly can. We take the view that we should enjoy today because we do not know what tomorrow will bring. Margaret then has to field the questions about travel (how can you sit in a plane for 14hours without a break? How can you travel thousands of miles in the car? Why not stay closer to home?) The answers are simple, with the car journeys we stop every one and a half to two hours and stop overnight after a maximum five hours drive, with the plane to Australia we work the flight so that it is a night flight leaving about 10.30pm. Margaret takes her medication after the plane takes off. By the time we have eaten and the lights go out the medication kicks in and some sleep takes place.

 

The point is that Margaret has got Fibro, it does not have her. We need to keep our lives as close to normal as possible because it is that normalcy that allows pain to become the secondary thought rather than the first thought. As a partner and carer it is up to me to read as much as possible about Fibromyalgia, to understand how it impacts on her life, and how I can support her in that fight. She could do it on her own as some of you have found out but the supporters’ role is be more than just a supporter, it is to be a good listener, a loving partner and above all a good friend who will stand by her no matter what the circumstances or situation.

 

Ron Robson

2. THE VIEW OF THE PERSON WITH THE CONDITION

 

ASPECTS OF FIBROMYALGIA

by Margaret Robson

 

The talk was about the different aspects that are associated with Fibromyalgia.  Some of them are accepted as part of the condition but others have not been accepted but do appear quite frequently in those diagnosed with Fibromyalgia.  As we are all different, even though we all have the main symptoms, some of us will have some of the different aspects whilst others may not, and again, we will often have different ones to the person sitting next to us.

 

One of the problems with Fibromyalgia is the fact that it is not understood properly and therefore these other symptoms are often not connected to Fibro.  This means that we often get really worried when yet another symptom appears.  The one thing I always say, and I repeat it here, is that when a new symptom does appear you must still get it checked out with your Dr.  However, if that doesn’t work out, it is always helpful to know that these symptoms could all be just down to Fibro.  It can take away a lot of the worry and stress when encountering these additional symptoms.

 

One of the things we are going to be mentioning are trigger points.  Trigger points are not the same as Tenderpoints.  You all know what Tenderpoints are because those are the points that were pressed when you got your diagnosis and you hit the roof!  To understand Trigger points I first have to mention Myofascia.  The Myofascia is the thin almost translucent film that wraps around the muscle tissue.  To better understand it, it’s the sticky white film you see covering some of the chicken parts you buy.  It gives shape to and supports all of your body’s musculature.  Picture a gauzelike network that shapes your entire body.  Make that network three dimensional, covering your entire interior, and then fill the gauze with structures including blood vessels, nerves and lymph.  Put your organs into this image.  They are held in place with fascial scaffolding.  Then you will add your muscles, which are permeated with their own myofascial network.  Finally, position your bones to anchor your muscles, and cover it all with skin.  That is still only a part of where your myofascia is.  I don’t want to go any further into that as that is a subject on it’s own, but that is just to give you a little understanding of what the Myofascia is.

 

The cause of Trigger Points is thought to appear to involve serious disturbances of nerve endings. This is only a snap-shot explanation and it is much more involved than this but, again it is a subject in itself and is, hopefully sufficient to understand more about them. Trigger Points are extremely sore points that can occur in the Myofascia, as taut, ropy bands throughout the body.  They can also be felt as painful lumps or nodules.  When you have a Trigger Point in your muscle, it causes pain at the end of your range of motion when you attempt to stretch that muscle.  The Trigger Point weakens that muscle.  You begin to avoid using that muscle because it hurts when you do.  Your muscles are designed to work their best when they move freely, so as you move the Trigger Point laden muscle less frequently, it becomes less healthy.  Circulation in your smallest capillaries, the microcirculation, becomes impaired in the area of the Trigger Point.  Nutrients and oxygen cannot reach the area easily, and wastes cannot easily be removed.  Your lymph system depends on the movement of the muscles to move the lymph fluid, so that system begins to stagnate as well.  Finally, because some of your other muscles have to do the work of the muscle that is weak, these overworked muscles start to develop Trigger Points.  Trigger Points can occur in the myofascia, skin, ligaments and tendons, bone lining, and other tissues.  This is just an overview to help you understand how some of the other symptoms occur.  Repetitive motion is one of the most common perpetuators of Trigger Points.  That is obviously why we find any repetitive movement so difficult.  Try cleaning a window, or polishing a table, or even just moving your leg up and down repetitively.  The pain just gets worse and worse until your arm or leg just gives in and you are left with that awful residual pain that just goes on and on.  All you can do is just hold it tight and scream if you are able to, and also use a few choice words, if that is what you prefer!  It is an agonising pain.  When I was diagnosed, I was told that even walking was repetitive, which actually makes sense.  So if I wanted to walk I would have to take a few steps and then do something different before carrying on walking.  So if you see someone acting rather strangely when you go into town, that person may not be drunk or waiting for those men in white coats, it could be me, doing a few ‘exercises’ between steps!

 

Well, we all have the pain and fatigue, of course, and the only explanation that has been brought forward for the pain, is that it is caused by an abnormality of the Central Nervous System, and they say that our first big flare-up is triggered by either a physical or a mental trauma, or sometimes it is brought on by a virus.    No-one else can feel our pain and it is not easy to describe our pain to others.  There are many different types of pain that we experience as I’m sure you all know, and these include:

 

1.   A general aching all over, most of the time. Can be helped by having warm baths or lying on a heat pad.

2.   Short, sharp pains in various muscles, with no warning, at various times during the day, even when immobile. These can have the effect of making us drop something, or making us stumble. The brevity of such pains, and the fact that it is not known when they will occur, makes it difficult to obtain any relief

3.   Dull, longer lasting pains in a part of the body. Can last anything from a few minutes to many hours. These occur without warning, and also in any muscle of the body.

4.      Sharp pains in muscles when in use. i.e. reaching for something, holding something, walking, stretching, flexing, carrying something, turning over (for instance, in bed), climbing stairs (up or down), writing, and any repetitive movement. Again, because of the brevity of the pain it is difficult to obtain relief.

5.        All-over pain caused by walking too far, standing too long, or sitting too long. Can be helped by warm bath, and heat pads.  One of the problems with this is that we don’t know what ‘too far’ is, as it changes each day, and when we’ve walked it we still have to get back.  That, if we manage it is real agony.

6.      Pain from being touched, or when brushing against something, or when leaning on something, at various points in the body.  I know from talking to all of you at one time or another that this is a difficult one, and also something that we often discover well before we get diagnosed.  People shake your hand and you can’t understand why it hurts so much.  Or someone will give you a hug and you want to scream with the pain.  Just a tap on the arm or leg is enough to make us hit the roof.  This aspect of pain can be so isolating because people don’t understand why they have to stand clear of you. 

Wearing heavy clothes can be a problem as you sometimes feel you cannot bear anything next to the skin.

 

I’m not going to linger on the pain aspect.  Suffice it to say that it is not really very well understood, even by us and we have it!

 

Fatigue is the second symptom high on the list of a Fibro.  In one study over 75% of FMS patients reported experiencing substantial fatigue.  It is not easy for others to understand what this means.  To most people fatigue just means they are tired after doing something that has involved hard work either physical or mental.  But to a Fibro, as you know only too well, it is a feeling that someone has pulled the plug out of your body and all your energy has suddenly seeped out.  It doesn’t happen because you have been doing something energetic (we should be so lucky), but it just happens.  It can happen when you are just sitting still reading and suddenly the book is too heavy and you find it is all you can do to put the book down and lie down.  It can happen when you are out and you just have to throw yourself into a taxi and get home as quickly as possible.  The feeling you are left with is zombie-like, in that you do not have the energy to think or move.  This sort of fatigue that we have so often is in addition to the tiredness that affects us all.

 

There are many possible causes for fatigue.  One cause is the lack of adequate, restorative sleep.  Once the factors are changed to allow you to wake up feeling refreshed, fatigue often diminishes greatly.  Paradoxical breathing is another common cause of fatigue.  People with FMS are often oxygen starved.  Proper deep ‘belly’ breathing must be restored, with the belly expanding with the inhale and contracting on the exhale (those of you who were here when Cecile Kiener, the Osteopath spoke at our March meeting last year, will remember that she spoke to us about the problems we have with the way we breathe and she showed us the correct way to breathe).  Trigger Points in the respiratory muscles and accessory muscles may be responsible for this.  Lack of oxygen may also be caused by allergy, fluid retention, or microcirculation difficulties.  You may also have chemical toxins and wastes that exhaust your body’s ability to process them, and your body uses up a lot of energy in this process.  Fatigue can also stem from the constant effort to function in spite of your pain.  The pain caused by the Trigger Points of Chronic Myofascial Pain takes a lot of energy.  Some of your fatigue may be due to your body’s lack of usable fuel in the form of adenosine triphosphate.  Some of this lack may be due to problems in your bowel function, including difficulties in absorption.  These are just some of the reasons that can cause fatigue and, of course, they are not exhaustive.

 

Sleep is a big problem for Fibros.  The first obvious cause is that we are in pain.  How can we possibly sleep when our bodies scream with pain with every move we make.  Just turning over can be agony.  We are told that we lack the Stage 4 sleep. That is the very deep sleep we should go into as the last stage of sleep and this stage should occur within the first three hours of sleep.  If we don’t get this stage 4 sleep it makes you really tired the next day.  Don’t we know it!!  There can be many reasons for not going into the stage 4 sleep, and we are told they can include such things as the bed not being right for us.  Too hard is bad, but then so is too soft.  So we need something in between.  Some people have found the memory pillows and mattresses help.  I have one of the pillows and I find it very helpful.  Alcohol and sleeping pills are also thought to be culprits for not allowing us to go into the deep sleep we need.  Snoring also can be a problem as this can wake you up.  I find that the tiniest sound and the minutest sliver of light in the bedroom, will keep me awake.  To counteract this I use foam ear plugs and an eye mask.  The latter can be the ones used in aeroplanes.

 

One of the problems caused by the lack of sleep is that we then are less alert during the day.  This means that we can lack concentration and we don’t react as quickly as we feel we should.

 

I have copies of a very good article on sleep if anyone would like a copy.

 

How many of you have problems with memory and understanding?  It is sometimes called Fibrofog.  Most people have experienced the problem of walking into a room and forgetting what they are doing there, but we seem to go to the extremes.  There are things that I do regularly, then one day I look at it and cannot remember how to do it.  Silly little things such as using the microwave, or turning the door key.  I just stand and stare at the item hoping for inspiration.  Another problem with Fibrofog is not being able to find the right word.  I end up trying to describe it.  Very frustrating for me and the person I’m trying to converse with.  I want this poster laminated, becomes, you know the clear stuff that you can put over a poster by putting it through a machine – what’s it called?  Or if I want something stapled together, it’s, you know those clip things that are silver and they keep the pieces of paper together, and you press the machine and they come out!  Sounds silly now, but it does really happen – ask Ron!  Another Fibrofog thing is saying the wrong thing in a sentence.  When Jean, John, Ron and I had a meeting with Derek Wyatt MP, I was talking to Derek and wondered why everyone was staring at me as though I’d gone mad.  Well, it turned out I’d said something really silly, but my brain had been saying one thing and my mouth had said something entirely different.  It all makes life very difficult for Fibros as we have to try to really concentrate on everything we do so as not to embarrass ourselves.  This, in itself, can be very tiring.  Some of the reasons given for Fibrofog are, extreme stress, depression, lack of sleep, or an approaching flare-up.  There is a study that suggests that daytime sleepiness causing fatigue, coupled with the distracting effects of persistent pain, contribute to impaired mental function in Fibromyalgia.

 

Probably the next most obvious symptom for us Fibros is the Irritable Bowel, and with some Fibros it is also Irritable Bladder.   There can, of course be many reasons for these happening as we also know that these symptoms are not just restricted to us Fibros.  However, one explanation for these occurring in people with FMS is that it can be due to the pyramidalis, multifidi, and abdominal Trigger Points.  The pyramidalis Trigger Point is found in your lower abdomen, a little to the side of your midline.  It is at about the same height as the lower hipbone ridge.  Trigger Points in the upper rim of the pubis appear to add to the irritability and spasms of the genital urinary tract.  This may be part of the reason why so many of us go to the loo so often.  With FMS not only is the bladder hypersensitive, it may not hold as much.  There are specific Trigger points that may cause or intensify diarrhoea, nausea, vomiting, and food intolerance.  If you experience nausea, it could be caused by the Trigger Points in the deep paraspinal muscles.  Irritable Bowel is a subject all on its own and I hope, at a later date to bring in an expert on this condition to speak to us.  I do have a very good article on Irritable bowel that you may like to have.  Copies are available after the meeting.

 

At least 50% of people with Fibromyalgia have headaches, and some also get migraine.  There are many possible causes of headaches, as you can imagine, and if you are prone to these, sensitivity to noise, heat and light can add to our headache woes.  Allergies, fatigue, hormonal imbalance, reactive hypoglycemia, congestion, vasometer rhinitis, and neurotransmitter dysregulation can also be factors. Most ‘tension-type headaches’ are caused by Trigger Points.  Many upper body Trigger Points may contribute to headaches.  Head and neck pain may also be referred from the nasal and sinus cavities and from the teeth as well.  Posterior cervical Trigger Points may entrap the occipital nerve.  This can cause numbness, or a tingling, burning pain in a band around your head.  Other posterior cervical Trigger Points can refer pain to the back of your neck down to the shoulder blade, and in the back of the skull on the side with the Trigger Points.  If you read or work with your neck bent over for a long time this can aggravate the Trigger Points.  I do have copies of an article on Headaches and Fibromyalgia, and some of you may be interested in having a copy later.  Many migraines are also caused by myofascial Trigger Points.  A number of these Trigger Points are all possible migraine-inducers.  Some of the other symptoms mentioned in the article are double vision, blurry vision, and/or changing vision.

 

Allergies and sensitivities seem to be another of those symptoms that those with FMS have.  Interestingly, Histamine is a neurotransmitter.  Often people with FMS don’t react normally to skin tests due to their altered biochemical responses.  Often many of our “allergies” are actually sensitivities without an immune component or they have a mechanism that does not utilize Immuglobin E, the typical allergy marker. 

 

Are you sensitive to light?  In FMS, some part of this sensitivity may be caused by a connection between light sensitivity and the hypothalamus.  A lot of people with FMS have difficulty driving at night.  The lights of oncoming cars cause us a lot of  problems.  It is thought this could be due to altered reactivity of the eye’s pupils.  This is under neurotransmitter control.  As may be expected, it is suggested that beta carotene may help.  The problem with light sensitivity is that light can feel like a pain to us.  I use an eye pillow at night to help cut out any light to enable me to go to sleep.  I can even ‘feel’ a light when my eyes are closed, and I’m sure some of you can empathise with this.

 

Are you sensitive to noise?  I definitely am, as Ron will testify.  I am always telling him not to shout when he thinks he isn’t.  I can also hear things that he cannot hear.  To me, as to a large number of Fibros, noise is also felt like a pain. 

 

Do any of you have sensitivities to certain smells?  Again, allergies and sensitivities is a subject all of its own and we hope, again, at a later stage to bring in an expert to speak about that.

 

Another symptom that seems to be associated with Fibromyalgia, and I’ve lost count of the number of people I’ve spoken to who have had this problem, is unexplained toothache.  I mentioned this at a meeting a long while ago and I said that I had had quite a number of teeth out because of the pain I felt they were causing.  The Dentist I had at the time, after I had pleaded with him to take the offending tooth out, bless him, took great pleasure in holding up the tooth after I had suffered agonies with the extraction, and said, ‘look, there is nothing wrong with the tooth’.  Numbness stopped me from saying what I really thought!  However, I really didn’t care because I was just glad to get rid of it.  After many extractions, I finally found some relief, but strangely, I do still feel I have toothache and when I put my tongue up to where it is, I find that the painful tooth is actually a false one!  Again, this pain could be caused by Trigger Points.  These being the digastric, masseter, and temporalis.  Again I have a really good article explaining this in more detail, and is entitled, “What Your Dentist Should Know about Fibromyalgia and Chronic Myofascial pain Syndrome.

 

Eyes are another problem for us Fibros.  We can get eye pain, double, blurry or changing vision, dry eyes, red and/or teary eyes, and problems with reading when words just seem to jump off the page at us.  Again, Trigger Points can be the problem here, particularly with the eye pain, the red teary eyes, blurry vision, double vision and changing vision.

 

Once again, I have an article here that is Information for Eye Care Professionals, and this is very helpful in explaining why you have these symptoms.  I’ll read it to you:

 

Ear Pain is something else we seem to get.  This again can be caused by Trigger Points that refer the pain.  The referred pain may include the area behind the jaw and in front of your ear, and/or the floor of your nose and throat.  You may get increased pain when you try to open your mouth wide, when you chew food or when you clench your teeth.

 

I think we all know about bumping into doors or walls, knocking things over, and dropping things.  The sternocleidomastoid group of muscles could be part of the problem.  I think we learn to have a sense of humour about our condition as we go through life, tripping up, cleaning up, and putting plasters on the places that we’ve hurt.  Well, that is, if you are not allergic to plasters, as I am.  Very strange but even the non-allergenic plasters leave me with a rash, but then, so did the non-allergenic pads I used with a TENS Machine!  The sternocleidomastoid Trigger Points can also cause dizziness.  One of the problems I often encounter is in shopping centres.  I’m walking along and suddenly my eye catches something in a shop window.  So, of course, I look back to check out what I’ve seen, and that’s where my stick becomes a lifeline as I’d be on the floor without it, as everything is out of kilter and it takes a few minutes for it all to return to normal before I can continue. The sternocleidomastoid Trigger Points can also cause imbalance, neck soreness, a swollen glands feeling, runny nose, maxillary sinus congestion, tension headaches, eye problems, spatial disorientation, postural dizziness, vertigo,    sudden   falls      when        bending, unintentional veering whilst walking, staggered walk, impaired sleep, nerve entrapment, and disturbed weight perception.  Well, I can do without that Trigger Point!

 

Do you have itchy skin? Do you sometimes feel as though something is crawling over your skin and you want to brush it off?  I’ve done this more times than I can remember.  It really does feel just like a creepy crawly has just run across your skin.  I find it is more often on my face.  Again, this can be caused by Trigger Points.

 

How do your feet feel when you first get up in the morning?  Do they feel as though they belong to someone else?   Do they feel like lumps of lead that are too heavy to lift up?  Or do they sometimes feel as though they are burning?  This seems to be quite common among Fibros.  If you are like me you dread getting out of bed because you know exactly what to expect and you know it won’t be pleasant.  It will hurt and you will feel off-balance, probably walking into the door jamb or door, or banging into cupboards or wardrobes.  I usually use the bed to hold onto as I make my way around the room.  How I eventually do end up in the bathroom sometimes seems like some sort of minor miracle.  Does this sound familiar to anyone?

 

Keeping on the subject of getting up, do you dread it every morning?  First, and most important, you have to move.  That’s bad enough.  The pain is excruciating, so you lie there a bit longer until you think you can bear the pain.  So you begin to move, but then you have to push back the bedcovers.  You’d think a duvet would be light, and to anyone else it probably is, but to us it seems so heavy.  Having managed that we feel so exhausted we’d now like to sink back into the bed and forget getting up, but if we do that we know we have to get up at some point and we have got this far, so being the determined people we are, we decide to move forward.  The effort of getting out of bed is enormous and then to be confronted with those two lumps of lead on the end of our legs is just too much.  However, we are stoic, so we manage to do it.  Do you ever read stories where the hero or heroine leaps out of bed?  Can you just imagine it?  I doubt any of us can.  Of course our problems don’t end with getting out of bed.  There’s still washing, cleaning our teeth, and worse of all, getting dressed.  Do you ever wish you could just stay in one set of clothes forever?  No more lifting arms to put them into sleeves, no more bending to put shoes or socks or tights on.  Bliss!!

 

Problems with writing i.e. writers cramp, and having a weak grip when objects fall out of your hands are most often caused by Brachioradialis Trigger Points.  You will all know the pain when you write for too long.  Too long not being very long at all for us Fibros.  One of the problems is that lingering pain that goes on and on long after you’ve finished writing, and it progresses from the hand to the wrist, then up the arm to the shoulder, neck and down the back.  We are also well known for dropping things.  Milk or orange squash are the worst things.  It’s not only painful, but so frustrating, especially when you know that you have to clean up afterwards.

 

How about those awful cramps that you get?  Especially in your lower leg and feet. To stop this happening, I’ve just read in a book ‘do not point your toes like a ballerina while you are asleep’.  Well, yes, I always know what I’m doing when I’m asleep!  Muscle cramps and twitches elsewhere seem to be quite common with Fibros too.

 

Trigger Points are also one of the problems with Buckling Knee.  Why does it always happen when I’m going upstairs?  One minute I’m upright and the next I’m sprawled out on the stairs.  We’re so used to it now that Ron calls out, ‘are you all right’ and I just say, ‘yes, just my knee again’.

 

Another problem I find really frustrating is the feeling that my fingers and hands are swollen, yet when I look at them, they aren’t.  This results in what we call ‘fumbly fingers’.  I am at my worst when I’m at the Automatic Teller and there is a queue behind me.  I just cannot grasp my card and then cannot do it as quickly as the people behind me would like, as my finger just get in the way.  Ron wants to do it all for me, but nowadays I just take my time, and people just have to wait. 

 

Well, there are many other aspects of Fibromyalgia, but I could go on all day, so I think I had better end here.

 

Please remember, though, that if it is a new symptom to you, you must get it checked out with a Dr first.  If it cannot be put down to anything else you may feel relieved that other Fibros have the same symptoms.  It’s always good to know you’re not alone. 

 

Don’t forget we have articles about some of the things I’ve mentioned, and the books in our Library (available to members) are also helpful.

 

 

 

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FIBROMYALGIA  CONFERENCE PRESENTATIONS

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In October 2010, the ICATS team from Eastern & Coastal NHS ran a Conference for Doctors and Healthcare Professionals at the Ashford International Hotel in Kent on “The Advances in Chronic Pain Management”.

 

The main speaker of the day was Professor Choy who gave an excellent presentation on the “Recent advances in the understanding and treatment of Fibromyalgia”. 

 

This was followed by a presentation by Margaret Robson, the Co-ordinator of the Fibromyalgia Support Group (Medway) and Regional Co-ordinator for Kent for FMA UK, about the “Effects of Fibromyalgia - a Patients’ Perspective”.

 

A DVD of these presentations has been compiled and is now available to purchase.

 

Those with Fibromyalgia and their carers/supporters, who have previewed the talks, have found that it is an excellent tool for explaining, to people around them, the symptoms, and the way in which they impact on the sufferers’ life and lifestyle.  The talk by Margaret Robson is particularly helpful as Margaret has Fibromyalgia and is able to ‘tell it as it is’.  If you have difficulty explaining to family and friends how you feel, then this DVD is for you.

 

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 4. LINK TO INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE PRESENTATIONS ON FIBRO BY LEADING USA MEDICAL PRACTITIONERS (BELOW):

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